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Living with Cancer: My Story

At 27, I was diagnosed with cancer. But I'm not defined by it. I'm still here, fighting and living my life. Let's talk about something else and learn from my experience.

The Diagnosis


When I heard the diagnosis, I was shocked and devastated. It felt like my life was over before it even began.


Chemotherapy was really hard on me, but I pushed through. I had to take it one day at a time.


People sometimes assume that when you're bald or wear a headscarf, you have to be the object of pity. That's not true - I'm still myself, even without hair.

Fighting Spirit

Fighting cancer is hard, but what's even harder is losing hope. Every day, I found new reasons to keep going.

Treatment and Survival

Tough Road

Treatment wasn't easy - it was painful and draining. But I kept my eyes on the prize and never lost sight of my goals.

Small Victories

Every milestone that I hit felt like a huge accomplishment. Whether it was overcoming a side effect or winning a battle with insurance, I celebrated every victory.

Never Give Up

No matter how many times I fell, I got up again. Cancer can take a lot from you, but your spirit is something that it can never touch.

Life After Cancer

New Perspective

Cancer changed my life forever. I learned to appreciate every day and not take anything for granted.

New Challenges

Figuring out how to live after cancer can be difficult. I had to learn how to navigate the fears and anxieties that come with being a survivor.

New Goals

Surviving cancer gave me a new sense of purpose. I wanted to give back, help others, and make a difference in the world.

Advocacy Efforts

Get Involved

I started getting involved with cancer charities to help other survivors. I volunteered for fundraisers, spoke at events, and did everything I could to raise awareness.

Spread the Word

My message was simple - you can survive cancer. I told my story on social media and spoke to local media outlets to share my message and help others going through the same thing.

Be a Force for Good

Whether it's donating to a cancer charity or just reaching out to someone who's struggling, everyone can be a force for good. I wanted to make sure that people didn't have to go through cancer alone.

Avoiding Pity and Stigma

Cancer Doesn't Define Me

Just because I have cancer doesn't mean that's all I am. I'm still the same person I was before, and I have so much more to offer the world.

Fighting the Stigma

People still think of cancer as a death sentence. We need to change the way we talk about it and make sure that survivors get the respect and support they deserve.

Positive Attitude

Cancer is tough, but positivity can make all the difference. Instead of feeling sorry for myself, I chose to focus on the good things in life and stay optimistic.

A New Day

I wake up every day feeling grateful for the gift of another day. Cancer may be a part of my story, but it's not the end of my story.


If you're going through cancer, I want you to know that you're not alone. There's a whole community of survivors out there who've been where you are.


To all the people who supported me through my cancer journey - thank you. You helped me see that life is worth fighting for.

written by: Odette Gomez


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