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Juggling Motherhood, Marriage, and Cancer: How I Found Resilience

Living with a serious illness while trying to fulfill multiple roles can be daunting. In this article, I share how I managed to balance being a mother, wife, and cancer patient. I also reveal the coping mechanisms I used to stay strong and positive despite the challenges.

Juggling Multiple Roles: Mother, Wife, and Patient


Being a mother is one of the most rewarding things I've ever done. Despite my cancer diagnosis, I'm still able to be there for my kids, help them with homework, and spend quality time with them. They are my biggest motivation to stay strong.


My husband has been a constant source of support and love. He makes me feel beautiful even on my worst days. Our relationship has been strengthened by going through this together.

Being a Patient

The diagnosis of stage 3 breast cancer was a shock, but I refuse to let it define me. I am grateful for the medical professionals who are helping me with my treatment and for the support of my family and friends.

Managing Symptoms Through Yoga and Painting


Yoga has been an essential tool in easing my fatigue, stress, and anxiety. It helps me maintain a sense of inner peace and balance within my body and mind.


I've rediscovered my love for painting. It's therapeutic and calming. When I'm creating, I'm able to forget about the pain and focus on the beauty around me.

The Power of Books, Journaling, and Reflection

"When I am inside writing, all I can think about is how I should be outside living. When I am outside living, all I can do is notice all there is to write about." - Annie Dillard

Books have been a source of comfort and inspiration for me. Journaling allows me to express my thoughts and emotions, and reflection helps me stay in tune with my inner self. These activities have helped me deal with the psychological impact of cancer.

Visualizing the Future: How I Want Our Lives to Be

Bucket List Items

Vision Board

Take a family trip to Hawaii

Complete a Master's Degree

Visit the Northern Lights

I believe in the power of visualization and I have created a vision board to remind me of what I want to achieve in the future. My family and I are actively working on our bucket list items, which keep us excited and motivated despite the challenges.

The Challenges: Fatigue, Sickness, and Fear


I make sure to prioritize rest when I need it, and delegate tasks when I can. I also create a realistic schedule for myself.


Some days are tougher than others, but when I'm feeling sick, I allow myself to take a break and do what I can to feel better.


Fear is a natural emotion that comes with a cancer diagnosis. I deal with fear by accepting my emotions, talking to my loved ones, and seeking support from fellow cancer patients.

Conclusion: Finding Strength and Resilience

Life doesn't stop during cancer treatment, but with the right tools and mindset, we can still live fully. I've learned to ask for help when I need it and appreciate the little moments in life. Cancer does not define me, but it has taught me to be resilient and strong.


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